Going after your most cherished goals and dreams, like going back to school, or starting your own business, is challenging enough when you have the love and support from your family and friends, but when your spouse, family and friends make fun of, or even discourage you, it can easily make you doubt yourself, and even give up. You deserve to go after your goals, make your dreams a reality, it’s what you were put on this Earth to do. But how can you go for it, when your loved ones support you?
On a practical level, you can look for outside support, such as finding a mentor or friend who is pursuing a similar dream. You could also hire a life coach or a therapist, to bolster your courage and self-esteem, and give guidance to move forward, but that can cost a lot of money, which may be better spent on the goal or dream itself. Ultimately, you must find the support you need closer to home: inside yourself. The doubts and discouragement others cast upon you lodge deep within your subconscious mind, creating “programs” that run in the background of your life. You can directly and easily go deep within yourself, and change these programs with subliminal and self hypnosis programing.
“The best way to react when someone doesn’t support your dreams is to welcome whatever reaction you have. This means if you feel angry, or doubting about your ability to succeed, simply allow yourself to accept it and feel that way. If you try and not react, you simply suppress your feelings, and they go straight into the subconscious and fester, sabotaging both your relationships and your goals,” Jane Ma’ati Smith says.
Remember, let go of wanting others to approve of your goals, and instead take your own council and follow your own heart. Only by doing this, will you be truly enthusiastic about your goals, and you will also be much more likely to achieve them.